Perfectionism

"The wait for a perfect spouse, perfect education, perfect job, or perfect house will be long and lonely. We are wise to follow the Spirit in life’s important decisions and not let doubts spawned by perfectionist demands hinder our progress." -Elder Gerrit W. Gong

Read the whole article here.

I also really liked:

"...a brother may not consider dating a wonderful, worthy sister who doesn't fit his unrealistic profile—she is not a sports enthusiast (yup, definitely me), a Relief Society president (me), a beauty queen (me), a sophisticated budgeter... (okay, this IS me)"  (wish I could say "Thank you, Elder Gong!!!")

Of course, we should consider qualities we desire in ourselves and in a potential spouse. We should maintain our highest hopes and standards. But if we are humble, we will be surprised by goodness in unexpected places, and we may create opportunities to grow closer to someone who, like us, is not perfect."

:)

Beauty After the Storm

I saw this beautiful sight tonight after a day of some CRAZY storms. There was some serious rain. Serious flooding. I was pretty excited to see a rainbow - it'd been a while.

But after I went inside as I was making my little dinner I had this thought: after the storm comes the beauty. So it is with life. Sometimes it pours. Sometimes we have crazy hard trials. Sometimes the storms go on all "day." But then, at the end, we get to see something beautiful. God makes something beautiful out of our "storms."

"Only God can turn a mess into a message, a test into a testimony, a trial into a triumph, a victim into a victory."

Motherhood

I read an amazing talk today given by a lady named Sharon Eubank entitled, "This is a Woman's Church." It was all about the role of women in the LDS Church. Read it here. Really good. I, personally, have never felt like I am less than men in this church. I know we have different responsibilities. One of those is that women get to be mothers. 

I loved what she said about this. This lady is 50 years old and single. No kids of her own. But she said the following:

"As a creator, Eve was so desirous to be a mother that she sacrificed Eden for it. And she did that willingly and knowingly. Adam called his wife’s name “Eve” and you know what it means. It means she was the mother of all living. But I find it so interesting she had no children when he called her that. But she was given a title, a divine title, that means there is heritage in this. And so whether you have children in this life or not, when you have your endowment and you are given the name, you are an inheritor of that. And it means that you have the title to be a mother." 

What struck me the most was that Eve had no children when she was called the mother of all living. I had never thought of it that way! 

I am not yet a "mother" with kids of my own. But I will be one day. Either in this life or the next. I look forward to that so much. I know it is my divine privilege to be a mother to precious children of God.

Charity Towards Self

"Some of us who would not chastise a neighbor for his frailties have a field day with our own."-Neal A. Maxwell

That is so true. I'm certainly guilty! We are our own worst critics. We need to exercise charity not only to others, but also to ourselves.

Life is to Be Enjoyed

Gordon B. Hinckley said, "Life is to be enjoyed, not just endured." I have decided to make this my motto and take it to heart.

There is so much about life to love. A spectacular sunset, a sweet niece's hug, a great deal on the clearance rack, a beautiful flower, laughter with friends, the list goes on and on. 

Heavenly Father wants us to be HAPPY. It doesn't matter where we are at in life. I don't need to wait to be happy until I get married. The time to be happy and enjoy life is now. Life is happening now.

I have found myself just so happy lately. There is so much good in my life and all around me. I don't want to miss it.

Enjoy the journey.

Faith

                              Image source: lds.org Gospel Library Kit

Tonight I want to testify of the power of the Atonement and the love of our Savior Jesus Christ. The longer I live the more I realize I am so inadequate. I am not perfect. It seems like I'm always getting trials that remind me of this. :)

But, I know I can't do it on my own. I can't live my life with out my Savior. I need his help SO much. I'm so thankful He knows me. Guess what? He knows that I am not perfect. And He loves me anyway. He loves me so much that He was willing to suffer, bleed and die for me. I can't even comprehend it. But, because He did that for me, I can turn to Him and He will completely understand me.

I've been trying to work on faith. I want to have more of it, but it can be very hard. But,I remind myself if everything came easy and Heavenly Father just told us all of the answers, there would be no learning and growing.

The Lord gives us our trials so we can learn to have faith and trust in Him.

I read the following quote tonight, which I love:

"Faith in Jesus Christ consists of complete reliance on Him. As God, He has infinite power, intelligence, and love. There is no human problem beyond His capacity to solve. Because He descended below all things (see D&C 122:8), He knows how to help us rise above our daily difficulties.

Faith in Him means believing that even though we do not understand all things, He does. We, therefore, must look to Him “in every thought; doubt not, fear not.” (D&C 6:36.)
-Ezra Taft Benson   (full talk here)

I think I should read that every day. It is powerful.

I know our Savior Jesus Christ can help us go through whatever we face. This life isn't going to be easy, but we don't have to do it alone. Our Savior can help us carry our burdens.

Give Your Life to God

Tonight I just feel the need to testify of the peace and happiness that comes when we let go of things we cannot control. Recently I've been trying to grow closer to the Lord and align my will with His. And I have been so happy.

I've reminded myself that God is in control. I am not. God knows what He is doing with my life. He sees the big picture. There is this little thing (big thing, really) called faith. It's trusting Him. He will take care of us.

“Men and women who turn their lives over to God will discover that He can make a lot more out of their lives than they can. He can deepen their joys, expand their vision, quicken their minds, strengthen their muscles, lift their spirits, multiply their blessings, increase their opportunities, comfort their souls, and pour out peace.”-Ezra Taft Benson